Queer + Kinky Rocks Providence!

***NOTE: Registration for this event will close at 11:59pm Friday Nov. 11. If you have been confirmed for the event, you will have received at least one (probably several) emails with a password protected link for the party address and other useful info. Check your email for the link and the password!***

Top-notch performer and educator Rain DeGrey, breezing through town for a brief 48 hours, asked, does anybody want her to teach a workshop?

Well, YES, Rain, we do! We’ll take Strap-On Sucking and Fucking–Basic and Pro Tips, please.

And to celebrate the occasion, we’re throwing an all-gender queer party in a spacious private dungeon, just for us.


  • 5:30pm Doors Open
  • 5:45pm – 8 pm Sandwich Bar (free to all attendees)
  • 6:30pm – 8:30pm Workshop
  • 9:15pm  Dungeon 101 and Q&A with Dominique and Lord Percival. Free!
  • 8pm Bootblack and foot massage stations open! Bring your boots and shoes for some TLC! Bootblacking until midnight and massages until 11.

and last but not least….

  • 7pm – 1am All gender play party. Play starts at 7pm and continues until 12:45am!

Attend party, workshop, or both!  If you’re attending the workshop, please arrive by 6:15pm so we have time to seat everyone before it starts.


And there’s still room at the party, which is going to be awesome.

This event is open to adults 18+. It is a vetted event–so if we don’t already know you we ask for references. But don’t worry, vetting is easy through our fun and mobile-friendly Google form

Please RSVP using our easy



Strap-on Sucking and Fucking–Basics and Pro Tips

Whether you are a strap-on virgin, or really love dishing it out but just want to pick up a few more pointers and improve your game, this is the class for you! Strap-on aficionado and expert Rain DeGrey covers all the bases when it comes to strapping one on.

Rain will cover some basics for getting started:

  • How to find the right harness, toys and attachments such as Feeldoes and vibrators
  • The care and cleaning of your toys and harnesses
  • Choosing the best lubes and toys for your play.

Rain will also share some great tips for playing with the mouth, front hole and ass, including:

  • How to properly prepare oneself for receiving anal strap-on play
  • Especially for size queens: large toy insertions!
  • Hardcore face fucking: play roughly and safely

There will be a question and answer period, as well as live demos of concepts presented in the class.

About Rain DeGrey

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter and performer. She has been teaching kink and sex ed classes for the past half decade. After getting her start as a fetish model and pro domme, she branched out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. colorheadshotShe has taught at Kink.com, The Citadel, Pure Pleasures, Stormy Leather, Folsom Fringe, The Looking Glass, KinkAcademy, PassionateU, Mission Control, Northwestern University and Boundcon in Germany on a wide variety on topics. Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s 69 sexiest things to do before you die, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and The Art of Restraint” bondage salon at Femina Potens in San Francisco. Demystifying sexuality, presenting in a clear and humorous way and making sex ed fun are trademarks of Rain’s teaching style. Find Rain on the Web at Raindegrey.com, @raindegrey on Twitter and Raindegrey on Fetlife.


A private location in Providence. Address will be given to confirmed attendees.

Driving, it’s about an hour and 15 minutes from Boston, with free parking. Alternately, if you want to take the Commuter Rail from South Station, venue is a 15 minute drive from the Providence stop. According to the schedule, trains arrive from South Station on Saturdays at 3:30pm, 5:40pm and 7:50pm. The last train back to Boston is at 10pm, unfortunately!

To help make it easy to get there (and back!), we’ve posted a fresh new sexy ride share thread on FetLife. Please post there if you can give a ride, or if you need a ride–and also if you need a ride from the train station, or can give one.

The venue is currently not wheelchair accessible. There is a flight of stairs to get to the space, and the elevator is not working.


  • $15 Just Workshop (you must leave by 9pm)
  • $25 to $35 The Whole Shebang: Workshop and Party
  • $20 to $30 Just Party

Free Sandwich Bar for all attendees!
A link to buy tickets online by credit card will be provided to vetted attendees. Please buy in advance if you possibly can, as it helps us in planning and will speed your check-in at the door. We will take cash at the door if you’ve RSVPd via Google form, however you must prepay to if you want to guarantee a seat in the workshop.

At Your Service: Bootblacking and Massage

P.E.T.E. will be on staff performing his awesome foot massages from 8-11pm. And we’ll have a bootblack stand open from 8pm to Midnight. Bring your boots, shbootsoes or other leather objects to be worked on by our awesome staff bootblacks, shining_boy and Jay Bosbootblack. Tips will be split 50-50 to support Queer + Kinky.  For full details, and bios of our bootblacks and masseur, check out our Pampering at Q+K Rocks PVD page.

What to Wear

Please arrive looking vanilla on the outside. Once inside, you can take off your coat to reveal your awesome fetish wear. Or if you want to change into your party clothes when you arrive, there will be plenty of room to change. If you don’t have any fetish wear, you can’t go wrong with basic black!

Party Rules

A link to a full list of party rules will be emailed to all confirmed attendees. If you have any specific questions before you RSVP, please email us at queerandkinkysig@gmail.com.

Dungeon 101

If you’re new to play parties, or just want a refresher, we recommend you attend Dungeon 101 with Dominique and Lord Percival at 9:15pm. We’ll give a quick summary of dungeon etiquette, negotiation, cruising tips and more! The presentation will be about 15 minutes, then we’ll have a Q&A so you can ask Percy and Dominique whatever’s on your mind.

About Us

Queer + Kinky is a Special Interest Group of the New England Leather Alliance. Our events are open to people of any gender who self-identify as queer, and to allies of the queer community.